You followed the rules. You did everything “right.” So why does it feel…wrong?
Quiet the inner critic, build self-trust, and break free from the “shoulds” that keep you stuck—so you can make confident decisions, show up authentically in relationships, and move through life with ease.
Enough is enough
Despite being deeply self-aware, growth-oriented, and probably the person others turn to for advice, you feel stuck.
You’ve done the therapy. You’ve gained insights. You know the coping skills. But you’re sick of coping with your life.
You’re exhausted
You don’t feel like your standards are impossibly high because they’re theoretically possible.
So you either overfunction, trying to meet everyone’s expectations, or freeze, unable to even start. Either way, the fear of failure and rejection are running your life and it’s exhausting.
And the worst part? You’re not sure if the things you’re afraid of failing at really even matter to you.
You’re living on autopilot
Making decisions based on “what makes sense” has built you a great life (on paper) but it’s left you feeling disconnected from yourself.
You can’t name what you actually want—you’ve spent so long doing what you should.
You overanalyze every decision, afraid of making the “wrong” choice.
You sometimes set boundaries…only to walk them back when they make others uncomfy.
Your inner critic is relentless, keeping you paralyzed by self-doubt in your work, relationships, and life.
To everyone else, it seems like you’ve got it all figured out. You may even feel guilty for feeling so deeply unsatisfied.
But inside? You’re just existing and you know there must be more.
You don’t actually need more clarity, you need self-trust
You can stop second-guessing yourself and rely on your instincts.
You can hold your boundaries for as long as they feel right to you.
You can make peace with the judgy voice inside your head.
You can make decisions without overanalyzing every possible outcome.
You can stop living life on autopilot and start creating a life that actually feels good—not just one that looks good on paper.
Hi, I’m Becca. I help (sometimes secretly) big-feeling, high-achievers quiet their inner critic, build self-trust, and break free from the “shoulds” that keep them from creating, leading, and connecting with ease.
If you are looking for personal transformation and practical strategy, then you are my people.
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